Дата публикации: 2017-09-13 14:50
Shedding your exoskeleton is the hardest but most important adventure you will ever embark on. It is a journey to your greater self. It 8767 s a painful experience that lead to many nights wallowing in despair. Here 8767 s the thing my fellow INTJ, if you need this, you 8767 re already in pain. You 8767 re suffocating, you feel like you 8767 re drowning. If pain is inevitable, choose the pain that will lead you to your greatest reward. One of my favorite quotes is 8775 If it feels like you 8767 re going through hell, just keep going 8776
I 8767 m guessing that as an INTJ female it 8767 s probably difficult to navigate the world. I have a few friends who are female (and male) INTJs and I have seen the pain they have experienced from getting terribly hurt. And I 8767 ve seen them hang in there, not close themselves off, and in fact learn how to embrace their personality.
Since Ni is a Perceiving function, INFJs should not be viewed as closed-minded at any point in their development. But during Phase I, they might appear overly opinionated or closed-minded, at least from without. Even if their judgments are precociously accurate, Phase I INFJs may lack some discernment regarding if and when it is best to express those judgments. Moreover, their Ni-Fe conclusions have yet to be honed and tempered by their tertiary Ti, making the INFJ more reluctant to carefully review or revise them.
To find an entrance into an INTJ is much, much more difficult. Everything they exhibit is more subtle and muted, and the rabbit 8767 s hole goes very deep.
They will know how to protect themselves against the predators of the world (thanks dadddy)! I will teach them the signs, the clues, how to spot the mask wearing evil perpetrator be it: a preacher, teacher, a father, mother, the 8775 nice 8776 old lady next door I will teach them how to SPOT EM!
Second, there 8767 s a major tendency to 8766 double down 8767 on being so much smarter than everyone else, and therefore being dismissive. No one and I mean NO ONE puts as much thought into things like an INTJ does, according to the INTJ. And to some extent that 8767 s true it 8767 s a rare bird that thinks as long and hard about anything as they do. But this dismissive attitude, combined with a perpetual feeling of being marginalized, creates the perfect context to generate pride as an emergent.
Kudos to Sam Vaknin for exploring his favorite subject, himself. There is a great deal to learn from Dr. Vaknin. Because he himself is not his favorite subject. We have no empirical data to prove or disprove that his favorite subject is whatever it need be to support his hidden agenda. The brilliance to capitalize on the current public hysteria to identify a narcissist, so he may afford to pursue his Ph D.
What does it matter to parse ego, personality, good, evil, anger and empathy? The ability to parse out such universal dualism is a fundamental narcissistic coping mechanism known as 8775 8766 splitting 8776 .
The narcissist cannot be trusted. He cannot synthesize the fact that good and evil exist in one person.
You are wrong about people are not evil that actions are evil if you want to call a Narc a person or not evil is not just an action and it may not be a human trait but there are evil beings in this world and there are evil being that look like people but because they don 8767 t have the make up of a human like empathy love a concious or emotions this means that they are not human even though they make look human they don 8767 t behave like a human would and don 8767 t qualify to be in the catagory of a human being.
INFJs are 8775 old souls. 8776 Many grow up feeling wiser than would be predicted by their chronological age. Having discovered the value of their Introverted Intuition (Ni) quite early in life, INFJs grow to trust its judgments and insights. Even as children and adolescents, INFJs can be found advising and counseling their friends and siblings, and perhaps even adult family members. They tend to feel happiest and most fulfilled when helping and enlightening others through their insights.
I 8767 ve caught myself doing this before, talking things out, working them out verbally to myself. I usually catch myself in the middle of some imaginary conversation in turn it over to God Lord, help my heart!