Дата публикации: 2017-06-12 06:20
Flower White, I want to print your post out, put it on my wall (even frame it) and look at it every time I worry about a guy not calling me. You 8767 re soooo RIGHT!!! Bless you!
Well Marni, I took another 8 days to IM back that 7th day message. And he took another 7 days to IM & we chatted casually for a while.
Two days later, he came online and I initiated IM but he hasn 8767 t responded since today.
Conclusion: He IS NOT into me. Hurt but file closed.
I dont depend on men i depend on myself. I want a man who thinks highly me and only me. Not All these games and bullshit people say. Its all about communication.
You might be thinking that there's a chance you have a real connection. But if that x7569 s really the case, it won't be because of their fake flattery and hyperbole. In simple terms, when they start saying, x756c Since you came into my life baby, I have looked forward to each sunshine x756d - as the fake x7568 James Richards x7569 did - you should think again.
One guy i meet wasnt sure if i was intrested in him. I text him thank him fun night. Honestly he shock hear from me he wasn 8767 t sure if i was intrested. Now he does all text him and long messages and calls. I love it. A little nudging helps. Some Guys love that we nudge a little. They are not sure if your that intrested in him.
It 8767 s Monday and you 8767 re talking on the phone with a nice guy you 8767 re interested in. After some chit-chat he finally asks you out on a date. It goes something like this:
Nice Guy: Do you want to go out for dinner Saturday night?
Letting him know 8775 he 8767 s in your thoughts 8776 is letting him know you 8767 re in his back pocket. He has ZERO incentive to pursue you. He already has you.
thanks for the quick response. I am so glad I found this site and read stories that are just like mine. Its been a week and I am doing good. What really hit me was something I read on your blog saying why am I stressing over a guy I dont even know. Coffee and Dinner hardly a chance to get to know someone. I am over thinking what did I do wrong, I showed up, had fun, gave him a great date. I couldnt have given any more than than. so I am going out this weekend and doing it all over again.
As a man, this is how I handle a post date. I text her once I 8767 m home and tell her the truth about the night and then say goodnight,good day,etc. If after a day passes, I reach out with a short friendly text. If she responds, I respond back within a few minutes. If within a day or so the lady doesn 8767 t contact me whatsoever, I take it that she isn 8767 t interested in me and move on. No contact after that.
I am used to being pursued by men. In this scenario, it is almost starting to feel like I am doing most of the work. What are your thoughts?