Дата публикации: 2017-06-13 02:06
Wow, I found this an incredibly sad article to read. Even sadder the responses from those in similar situations, and from disappointed singletons. You really think this is what love is? This whole article reads like someone trying to justify his own marriage to himself, convince himself that it 8767 s true love, when he 8767 s just trading favors for a little hint of affection from his own partner. Like an arranged marriage in which you eventually just become 8766 content 8767 and 8766 at ease 8767 with the reality of the situation because divorce is not an option. I think you still have not discovered love.
I suppose we could pass judgment on an entire population of people because we had limited exposure to a very small segment of that would require us to be small minded and out of touch with reality. It would also require us to lack complete accountability for our own actions of trying to insert ourselves into a 8775 playah 8776 culture (which exists within superficial groups both inside and outside of the US), trying to get our 8775 game 8776 on, and then get pissed that we got played.
Or the 8775 Unrealist. 8776 The gal who sets forth a series of standards, (looks, wealth, status, etc) in a man, all the while possessing NONE of said qualities in herself. A 8775 5 8776 looking for a 8775 9 8776 or 8775 65. 8776
I want my GF to start taking better care of herself and our space (by cleaning up after herself and putting things away). I want this for both of us it 8767 s in both of our best interests, and we both recognize that. When things get bad (think piles of dishes in the bathroom sink), of course my spouse will jump into action.
The ideal is a unision of what is good in Western culture (a society that protects females as equals) with what is good in Eastern (faith in the universe that you will be cared for, and being locked in a community that chooses for you).
If you 8767 re a man dating a damsel in distress, proceed with caution. Do not, under any circumstances, give her a key to your place or you will come home to an unwanted roommate.
Before you say love is weak when a marriage is based on it, you need to define love. Emotions? Of course it 8767 ll be weak.
True love, or the mixture of all 9 kinds of greek love with emphasis on agape love, then yes. Marriage is strongest then.
Simply put, filth and un-cleanliness to some MEN is really NOT that big of a deal. It 8767 s just NOT IMPORTANT to them, they don 8767 t care about getting roaches, or company seeing their dirty underwear lying around, and mold growing from plates. It doesn 8767 t bother them they don 8767 t see cleaning as a responsibility such as work. They see it more as being a chore.
Everything you 8767 ve heard about dating a married man is true, unless it 8767 s something positive. There is nothing favorable in seeing a married man. I cringe at how low my self esteem had to have been to allow this horrible treatment of myself. I guess I needed to wake up and start liking myself so I would no longer subject myself to rejection over and over again from anyone.
While this may not be true for everyone, including your grandparents, I think when you rush in to marriage, maybe not even loving the one you 8767 re marrying yet, you Learn to love the person or at least Learn to live with the person, for the sake of the institution. I feel that it 8767 s better to fully, truly love your partner first, and use your love (and common goals) to decide to marry the person