Дата публикации: 2017-06-12 16:51
Have you talked to a counselor or trusted mentor-type person about how you feel? There may be some emotional issues that are holding you back from moving forward.
He used to go on drink and drug binges where he would leave the house at night, ignore all phone calls and not return until the next morning. I wouldn 8767 t know who he was with or what he was doing. This behaviour has stopped since I left him the first time, but I sadly have not been able to rebuild my trust. He has started attending counselling for his anger, and has so far just been for one session.
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As if this wasn 8767 t enough strain emotionally I had other women message me. Women in the plural, more than one!! That is devastating enough as it is, as well as all the stuff beforehand that had happened.
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A romantically indifferent ex may still care about you (although not romantically), and thus be plagued by a different kind of guilt entirely. After all, at some point, you did share something special.
I feel guilty because I wasn 8767 t honest with myself at the time, and therefore, I 8767 ve actually ended up hurting him because I should of walked away. But I couldn 8767 t.
I only really learnt of this side of him when we moved in together around 6 year ago. He would lose his head over something tiny like a floor needing sweeping, and would shout and swear at me with obscene insults like 8775 f***ing stupid b**** 8776 . If I compare myself now to just before we met, my self-confidence has shrunk to a fraction of what it was before. Thankfully he has never hurt me physically, but the emotional abuse is damaging enough. His temper is so unpredictable that I reached a point of not even being able to enjoy the good times out of fear of the next outburst.
And, here is a list of national resources and hotlines that provide anonymous, confidential information to callers. They can answer questions and perhaps even give you advice.
The regret of a defensive-minded ex is romantic in nature , and not objective and speculative. However, and it bears repeating , a degree of romantic regret is natural, and does not necessarily indicate a fundamental desire to reconcile.