Дата публикации: 2017-09-13 13:30
I don''t believe the issue has to do with literacy per se. Instead I believe the issue lies with the individuals capacity to think for themselves. I mentioned education as I believe a large part of the intended goal is to afford people the ability to receive instruction. As opposed to being able to decide whether or not they should be following the instructions.
Then I get down to the decent messages. We chat. I have to ask where they live and work and I flag with them that they are my standard initial questions due to my situation. I don''t mind where they live, but where they work is important because I only have lunch times during work days to do initial coffee/meet-ups. My daughter lives with me, but alternate weekends she is with her father. I don''t want to commit my free weekends to anyone until I''ve met them first and have decided that I would like to progress. My free time is scarce so I''d like it to not go to waste.
In fact, dating sites and apps have been so successful for thin markets, especially LGBT people, that Dale Markowitz, a data scientist at OkCupid , says she thinks they’re “actually driving the mainstream popularity of online dating. For example, gay and lesbian members made up a larger portion of our member base back in 7565 than they do today.” As dating online became more mainstream, more straight people joined, and that proportion changed. “This isn’t to say users in thin markets are using online dating less than they did before, 8776 she says, “but just that they saw value in online dating way before everyone else did.”
My final rambly point is that I''ve had female friends who, while *awesome* people, were extremely physically unattractive to me. On dating sites, they had a very similar experience to what all of the men in these comments are describing. So let''s stop generalizing and saying "all" women have it easy. Online dating just sucks for everyone.
Online dating works - if one take it seriously - put a good picture, good profile, and be clear of your boundary (and state it in the profile).
Read the other person profile, respect his/her wish (if being stated), and greet politely.
I clearly state my expectation and engage in conversation with whoever meet my expectation.
This is the place to unload that baggage that s been weighing you down for days, weeks, months, or years. This is to relieve the pit in your stomach that won t go away, not for the angry rant you could spew at anyone. When you need to make a post for yourself, not necessarily for advice, or to answer questions, but to get it off your chest, we ll be here to listen and, if you want, to talk.
All human beings.. and I mean ALL.. including feminist retards like this one know it is MEN who are NOT WIRED for monogamy.. and women are the ones who nail men down.. it is GENETIC. Females often died from childbirth.. and once knocked up, they were out of commission for a year.. while males mated with as many females as possible. look at Ghenghis Khan.. half of Mongolia''s and China''s population carries HIS genes. not "hers" sweet silly thing.
Eric: Yes. Stop ignoring all of us. You know, guys get accused a lot of being superficial and basing everything on looks, but I can&rsquo t help thinking that most of these women just file quickly through a guy&rsquo s photos and then fly right on to the next one without actually getting to know what the guy is like. It&rsquo s so frustrating, because you know, I think a lot of really nice guys out there could make for amazing boyfriends who would treat these lonely, single women like they deserve to be treated. Instead, you know, I think a lot of them are still hung up on hunting for the bad boys, the smooth-talkers. I don&rsquo t know what more a nice guy can do, but I do know it would be nice if some of these women would at least give us a chance to show what we have to offer.
We all have expectations but it''s those unrealistic expectations sometimes that I think is another thing guys have to compete against and why these women are single themselves, the knight prince on horse back doesn''t exist in real life.