Дата публикации: 2017-08-13 12:16
Anyway, I just wanted to comment here because I am basically a total disaster and it seems like there are some people here who can relate :)
I don''t think that''s what is really happening. People don''t really think they''re superior to each other. I think they feel inferior and afraid to reach out to others. They end up staying home and being miserable. They give up too soon. The websites are supposed to be a screening process to find the right person. The next step is to date. I''m a woman who has tried the dating scene on the internet and this next batch can''t get from behind their gadgets. The men won''t even make a phone call. I don''t think they are serious about dating. It''s a lengthy process some times to find the right one. Patience is needed.
That 8767 s part of why it hurts so much because I can 8767 t trust my gut, if don 8767 t truly feel that way or I 8767 m too afraid to let go. She was beyond understanding and pacient with me. I told her I still need time to heal whether it 8767 s 6 months, a year or more. She says she wants to sleep until that time has gone by. It 8767 s just not fair to her. I want to comfort her, she still wants to talk, but I feel that would be inappropriate and potentially misleading. I don 8767 t know where that line is.
Men don''t get responses because they have a failure to communicate and they don''t type so how do you communicate when you don''t type the internet bathing system requires one to know how to type and if you pack it gets boring waiting on someone to respond back to you
Conclusion, the best revenge is when you improve your life so well that she
realizes she made a big mistake. And satisfaction comes when you meet
someone so much better, you are glad the ex is gone. After all, if you are
seeking revenge, how great could she really have been in the first place!
And we disempower ourselves in the process by making our sense of happiness and contentment dependent on our partner’s happiness and contentment. It’s a really toxic dynamic.
This also doesn''t mean all guys are like this. There have been maybe 8 that I told them I wasn''t interested in after talking to them and why and they went on their merry way.
We could term this "hypergamy" as some commentators do.. which makes the females sound quite like lab rats and gives the (male) commentator a horrendous, vile, disembodied ocularity, but that''s not my deal at all. I know that females are smart, informed, and selective, and have strong capacity - in most places, thankfully - to exercise choice about mating habits. Females also possess very strong sex drives and know how to get what they need and want, whether it coincides with the NiceGuy/bf/hubby or - often - not.
Yes, it''s creepy that men twice her age were hitting on her, that shouldn''t even be allowed. There should be a filter and I think there are more of those now.
We also don 8767 t know how old she was when she made that choice I would think less badly of a 66 or 67 or even 75 year old doing it than I would a 75, 85, or 85 year old.