Дата публикации: 2017-06-12 05:20
Thanks for your sharing your story. The man I am seeing now is in a very similar if not the same situation as you. Do you think you would have been ready if that amazing person came into your life very shorty after you decided to separate? or being alone would be the better choice as it would give you time to get over the ending of your marriage?
Emily went on to graduate from the theater program at NYU’s Tisch School, but laments a lack of familial guidance when it came to pursuing a career.
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Well, a few days ago, my dad tells me that he is going to Florida next week with a 8775 woman friend 8776 of his (he never would have taken my mom to Florida). I have no idea who this woman is nor do I want to know.
I don 8767 t know why this hurts us so much. I think part of it, for me, is that I feel like if I accept my dad having a new woman in his life, I am being disloyal to my mom. I, too, was very close to my mom.
Wow! That is a dilemma. On the one hand, you have come through a long and difficult journey, and apparently have pretty much come out the other side. On the other hand, I have to tell you, that situation of your is a potential emotional (and maybe legal) minefield for a new man in your life.
My husband of almost nine years left me for a 58 year od woman when I was 96. That was last year. For those of you who believe in Karma, please don 8767 t, stop. They are perfectly happy, while I am alone, and picking up the pieces and nowwhere near recovery. I haven 8767 t even met anybody. So there you have it.
You are the 8775 Girlfriend 8776 so you would not understand how their children feel. This is all about you not wanting to be alone, because he did not have enough time to understand his grief nor did any of the other family members. When two people are together for along period of time and one passes the other is not use to being alone. I personally feel that people should have enough respect for others to let the family grieve without bringing a new situtation into the mix. What people in your situtation need to realize it is not all about you, there are children, grandchildren, in-laws.
It seems to me that the almost universal theme of these comments are how hard it is when other people make choices we don 8767 t have control over. My wife of 69 years committed suicide just over a year ago, leaving me with 9 children ages 67 and under. Does that sound like someone else making a choice over which I had no control? You bet. Did it make me angry at her? You better believe it did. Does it still affect my life? It will every day until I die. And without a doubt, it will affect the lives of our children even more profoundly. My responsibility now, and mine alone, mostly, is to see that my children have the best chance of success in life.
The ironic thing about this is, if heaven forbid, the lady he is dating now were to pass away, how long does SHE think it would be before he were dating a new one? Not. Long.