Дата публикации: 2017-06-12 22:24
I am currently on Tinder, and have been for about a month. All of the messages I have received from men have been respectful so far. I'm not sure why, but I'm guessing it has something to do with how I wrote my profile, as well as the pictures I chose to show. My profile is pretty straight forward, without being bitchy. My pictures are tasteful, and there are also some that show I am pretty jacked. I swear that after I have become more buff, men have gotten a ton more respectful. Ridiculous, but true. And no, I don't think I'm special because I'm fit, it is just a physicality.
Feminism is for people with low IQ's. because if you throw some common observation and a little bit of scientific data in the arena, it causes a histrionic meltdown.
That's actually a really good point. If you don't like any of the incoming messages or guys who message you, why on Earth don't these women proactively seek out nice guys on these sites and message them first? I can believe most of the guys who proactively message girls first on these sites might be jerks or downright scary, but I highly doubt EVERY guy who exists on the site is such.
Dennis reveals his foolproof system for seducing any woman to the rest of the gang , but they don't grasp the concept.
Eric: It&rsquo s not. I spent hours trying to create a profile that shows people what I&rsquo m really like. No dice. Sure, I get a lot of profile &ldquo views&rdquo , but no messages. I&rsquo ve scheduled about an hour a day to browse through profiles and I look for several things. Most importantly is that she likes doing similar things that I do. Secondly of course is that the profile gives me some feeling that there could be chemistry.
"I like your pics, they are sexy and classy. I love a woman with class and style. I'm a man with direction in life and I'm looking for a Certain kind of woman to include in my life. What say you? Are you that one?
Or the don't smile!!! That gets to me the most. They look so down and depressed. And then you give them a chance and they can't hold a conversation! It is infuriating!!
People don't aren't any different on dating sites than they are/were in "meat market" bars back in the 75s & 85s. Nice guys never had a chance because they were perceived as wimps. Based on my experince and in spite of what AW says, girls seem to go for the "bad boys" (creeps). I don't know whether if's the excitement of going out with a "bad boy", or masochism of getting no respect, or the futile hope of changing the guy but girls are drawn to creeps.
Women (statistically speaking -- not meaning to generalize too much here), are very emotional and social. By emotional, I don't mean crying all the time, I mean they read very much into every little statement and facial movement you make in order to draw as much meaning as possible out of what you're expressing. There are two disadvantages guys have in the scenario where you're only offered writing as a vehicle to impress a woman.