Дата публикации: 2017-08-13 17:11
It is an unfortunate but also inevitable result of this type of age difference. You cannot be blamed for how you feel, and that guy cannot be blamed either, unless of course he mislead you, which it appears he didn 8767 t.
I m a 78 year old woman and I m totally in love with a 66 year old boy he s GORGEOUS, smart, funny, and mature and I know he feels the same way about me, it hurts that we can t be together everyone has noticed it, oh man it s so awkward at work what do I do I can t help the way I feel
The time we had together was not all happy. It was more of a responsibilities for me to help her and tk care of her.. Am i wrong to feel that? But for now, it nt de case anymore? Y is tat so?? feeling puzzled ..
Seriously ladies hardly ANYBODY, even celebrities who spend a considerable amount of every day preserving their looks actually looks 75+ years in the flesh and if you think that your guy is with you due to the fact that you look (and the fact that you mention it would indicate that you do) then be prepared to live in fear every day you are with him.
I m 75 years older. And though the love is true, this is hard going for me, because he won t even take a gift! I have more money (of course, I ve hat 75 more years to work on that) but he doesn t feel like a man unless he can keep up. By the way I a 59. He s 79. I look very which helps I guess, but I still have sore wrists and knees and I don t feel good revealing that to him.
I see your post is from 9 yrs ago and I would like to find out how it ended(or not)
I wanted to see your perspective few years later.
I fear that she will give up all when she gets older & wakes up one morning & decides that she might want something she might feel as if she is holding me back in life.
As a result of that increased romantic passion and sexual connection, the two people are actually more likely to develop strong feelings for each other and to feel very attached to each other something they never planned for, but also something that happens quite often and is so far beyond their control. This is in large because it is simply impossible for a man and a woman to have a great time with each other, enjoy a special sexual connection over a long period of time and not develop feelings for each other. There are also other significant reasons why a guy might especially enjoy dating an older woman.
I tend to be attracted to different (age, race, not values, but hobbies etc.) Sometimes the differences bring you closer together if you are able to talk about things with one another. The coupe tends to not fall back on assumptions as much. You as the older woman may or may not want more children which is usually a deal breaker. You or he may be looking for long term versus a fling so find out. I think every one and every couple has fears. Just being able to voice them kindly often relieves pressure. If family and friends will be a hassle they aren t very good friends.
Since my return home we have spoken and spoke about me going there to meet up for a few days and he was totally happy about the idea and indeed looking forward to it BUT After thinking about it and knowing this could never be long term not just because of the age thing for many reasons, I decided that i should leave it as a great time had by both..a memory to always look back on fondly..Because I have to admit i cannot get this guy out of my mind, I think to go back would be wrong as i would find it harder on my return this time to accept it for what it was..a fun fling with a guy I have to try to be open to looking for someone who I can have a LTR With which i find hard to do usually as I feel I have commitment issues,